About seven out of every ten persons who schedule their first guitar lesson tell me something similar. "I'm starting almost completely from nothing. I hope you don't mind beginners. I bought this guitar about two months ago. I bought a book to go with my guitar, but I found it boring after about a week or so. At some point, I looked on the web for easy, beginner, guitar stuff to learn. You know, online guitar lessons. I got pretty frustrated about the lack of anything decent on the web. I realized that there was nothing that was going to help me except finding a teacher. Then I found you." What's interesting to me, as a teacher, is that neither book nor internet helped these people learn. Sure, it was a fun way to jump into guitar, but neither method yielded the results these folks were looking to achieve in terms of progress. It's interesting too to see that this person really wanted to learn, so they bought a guitar and a book. No fault there. The book they got was boring, so they tried Google and YouTube. No fault here either, as there is also great information to be had there as well. But neither source gave them what they were ultimately looking for-progress and skill. Perhaps it's at this point that we all realize we want to learn, and that we need a teacher. That's pretty telling. What fascinated me is this: Why, with all the technology that we have today-the systems, and the approaches-can we not teach guitar remotely?
There are lots of possible reasons why any of these learners get frustrated about learning via books or the web. Much of what is found on the web for guitar education is, well, sub-par. The results? Any disorganized presentation of curriculum is annoying. A philosophy behind why a certain concept is required might be inadequate and flawed. The excercises might be way above or below skill level. There could be huge gaps of ability, resulting in huge barriers that the learner has to recover from. There could be too much information to soak in. The curriculum might not be flexible to meet the needs of the learner. The learner might not be interested in what is being offered. There are a whole host of reasons.
Still, there are thousands of online guitar lesson sites out there. To the guitar teacher, the medium of online guitar lessons has got to seem pretty tempting. "Hey, I'll just systemize what has worked in the past and present in my face-to-face lessons online, somehow. Then, I can replicate this very same lesson four hundred times without breaking a sweat, and make a fortune!"
There is one major flaw: If the teacher is removed from the picture, the commitment to learning is removed as well.
Commitment, Online.
Anyone who used to get online with a dial-up modem back in the glory days of the internet understood that there was a lot of potential for doing something you weren't really allowed to do normally. One could do something without deference to social norms and have no fear of reprimand from a boss, co-worker, spouse, or friend. Anyone who explored the internet in those days understood that having that ability to walk away from any interaction was intregral to why they were there in the first place. To services like AOL or even CompuServe (remember them, anybody?), being anonymous was a major selling point of the experience.
AOL's commercial featuring David Cross hits the idea brilliantly:
When a person is anonymous, they are not accountable for their actions. Being unaccountable for their actions, they could leave at anytime if they violated the norms of whatever service they were taking part in. They could delete an account and start fresh, or just simply leave a chat-room. Although they valued the ability to get online and go search out these services, they were not obliged to go public with their activities. In my own brutal way of saying it, they were uncommitted.
The internet still seems like a place where identity is incredibly vague. I do not want to give the impression that I believe that this is bad. The web is still ripe for random anonymous net surfing opportunities, within reason. There are ample chances to be really, really stupid to other people and still get away with it. We can always walk away, unscathed. It's the same for online guitar lessons. We can still navigate away from a site if it isn't to our liking. If a person tries them out and they don't work (please remember that 70% of the people who come into guitar lessons with me had tried online and then promptly gave up), they won't feel bad for leaving the site. If the lessons were bad, then there's no reason to stay.
The game changes dramatically once a person walks into a guitar lesson, however. They are no longer anonymous and they are now accountable for their actions.
Accountability and Commitment
Many, many people out there may disagree with me on this, but I don't care. Online guitar lessons are completely ineffectual because of one reason: The lack of a professional relationship, a bonding of sorts, between a teacher and student working on something together creates a lack of both accountability and commitment. The teacher is there to help, the student is there to learn, and the professional relationship between the two is what facilitates the process of learning and teaching. There is nothing more. In an ideal teacher/student relationship, both parties feel intensely committed because they both feel accountable for their own actions-both of them affect each other. That's a good reason why I take teaching and learning so seriously. I like people, and I've found that no other excercise out there has made me grow more as a human being than has teaching. I am a life-long learner too. I've often felt that if I had the right reasons to study as well as the right teacher, the one I felt like I could give my heart to, then I could learn what I wanted to learn incredibly fast and well.
The larger the proximity between teacher and student (i.e. emotional distance, as with systemized online guitar lessons, or video conference lessons), the less chance for a professional relationship. The less chance for a professional relationship, the less the commitment. The less the commitment, the less the accountability. The less the accountability (in learning guitar at least), the less chance for fun to happen. In order to learn, we need to be ready to commit, and that's not always an easy thing to do.