Teaching With Kindness; Don't Be A Pushover.

Forgive me, I've been on a kick about teaching philosophy lately. Yesterday I was telling someone that very few things in my life have inspired more growth than teaching guitar for a living. It's true. It takes a lot of energy to grow while making a space for others. All teachers are confronted with the issue of energy conservation when they open up their door to helping others learn. A really good point to remember, if a person wants to make space for others to learn, is learn how not to be a pushover.

I am pretty convinced that some guitar teachers are there to support a student at any cost. They are there to help them and see them do well. This is great, but it is a double edged sword. By being too open there is the danger of allowing personal and professional boundaries to break down between the two parties. Maintaining boundaries, while being a kind person, is a hard but necessary act for both persons. An example from my guitar education work is this: I am pretty strict about making sure that each lesson starts at the top of the hour and not a minute before. I usually have about five minutes to myself between two adjacent lessons. Those five minutes are precious to me; I use them to group my thoughts, create lesson plans, and keep on top of what I need to do. So therefore, I will ask the next student if I may have a couple more minutes before beginning their lesson if they are a bit early. There's nothing wrong with being eager to learn! I like that people show up early. But stating I need more time means that I am very kind to both of us. After I am ready, it's on to rock and roll, and I am better able to make a space for them and their needs. There is an art to maintaining personal boundaries while being a decent person.

Giving and teaching with kindness does not mean allowing everyone to trample all over your personal needs. I believe it is possible to do that while still drawing lines of what is acceptable and unacceptable. It's true that some people need a bit of guidance on how you want the relationship to work. They need boundaries to be set so that everyone's safety can be established. The sooner the boundaries are respected and maintained, the sooner the work blossoms. It's pretty awe-inspiring to watch this happen in realtime, too.

Posted by Dave Wirth
 

Don't Use Scales For Evil

I believe that any technical exercise that doesn't have a concrete purpose, a purpose that can be defined and written down, is not worth it's salt. Scales are not immune to this query. It bothers me that many online guitar lesson sites as well as guitar teachers advise their students to learn exercises that have no defined goal. Many of them ask their students to learn scales right off the bat because it's "good for the fingers." I don't think this is good enough of a reason to learn scales.

Scales are also stereotypically considered to be the barometer of ability in guitar. I think also that there are more than a few people out there who are consumed with the desire to know all the scales, and are willing to show off how much they know. Keep in mind this delicious irony: There are millions of professional musicians who don't know a single scale and still make more money than a silly guitar teacher who blindly recommends every student they teach to learn scales in the first place.

If you are a beginning student, I could only think of four possible situations that might be appropriate (or perhaps evil as in the case of #4) for learning scales. Here goes:

1. Building the ability of hearing a scale

I really like the sound of Locrian. There is something about the flat second and fifth scale degrees that makes my ear go crazy. The best way to get new sounds like locrian in my ear is to play it over and over again in a technical exercise like a scale. After a little bit of time spent playing the scale, I automatically get it into my ears. If you have ever spent time learning the pentatonic scale and played a wrong note (like, "Hey that's not right. It should be..."), then you know what I am talking about. It's about being able to hum the scale.

2. Expanding the technical palette

I heard a story about Branford Marsalis, the saxophonist. There's a rumor that he spent years watching sports center and thundering through his scales. He wouldn't breath into the horn enough to make a sound, but his fingers would find the right keys to press. The result? Lightning fast scales and technique. The same can happen with guitar. Doing scales can make your hands quick.

3. Scales provide a nice safety net for soloing

Whenever I am stuck in a middle of a solo and I am not feeling any bit creative, I revert to scales. It's cheap, yeah. I wish I could be creative all the time, but it's nice that I have those there. If you want to play lead guitar, scales are really good to have at your disposal. However, if you want to play along to songs and not worry about playing single strings, there is simply no use for scales. I advise a lot of people this way. If you want to play a lot of The Beatles' songs and sing, then there is no reason why you should touch one single scale.

4. Showing off in Guitar Center

Please, if you learn scales, don't go to Guitar Center and show off. You might be impressing yourself but there is a damned good possibility you are annoying the living hell out of the people who work there. Same with people trying out guitars anywhere else in the store. Besides, there is always someone who is a better. How embarrassing would it be if they plugged into the amp next to you and out-played you?

Please, don't use scales for evil.

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Posted by Dave Wirth